Quote. “No problem can be solved from the same level of consciousness (of physical matter) that created it.” Albert Einstein. We need to go deeper to our inner strength of consciousness.

Chapter Nine. Why Bad Things sometimes happen to Good People.

Domestic Violence. An Integrative Way to connect with the problem.
The Law of Causality, the Law of Karma and the Law of Grace.

Background for this Chapter.

I had been reviewing some research on the classification of my clients at my Remedial Massage and Myofascial Release Therapy clinic. Approximately, 300 out of the 1000 massages I was providing each year were related to Domestic Violence at all stages of the process. This covered all aspects of humans with other humans and pets in the home environment. This means that about 3,000 out of 8,000 massages I had provided were related to Domestic Violence. Then on 19 February 2020 a Domestic Violence event made national press headlines in Australia.

Hannah Clarke (8 September 1988 – 19 February 2020) was an Australian woman who was fatally burned in a petrol fire in her car in a murder- suicide by her estranged husband, Rowan Baxter, along with their three children, on 19 February 2020 in Camp Hill, Brisbane, Queensland, Australia. The murders sparked a national debate about domestic violence in Australia.

Source: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Clarke_family_murders

Let’s start with the contact phone numbers.

• In an emergency call the Police and Ambulance on triple zero. (000)
• DVConnect Womensline 1800 811 811
• DVConnect Mensline 1800 600 636
• 1800RESPECT 1800 737 732

Source: https://www.qld.gov.au/community/getting-support-health-social-issue/support-victims-abuse/domestic-family-violence

Tomas: I went to bed and set an Intention to raise the question of domestic violence and this event of the murder of Hannah Clarke’s family, with my Headmistress during my dream state overnight. It was not long before I arrived at my Headmistress’s office on Arcturus.

Tomas: “Hello Headmistress. I have a question for you, why do “Bad Things sometimes happen to Good People?” I have been shocked to my core, about the prevalence of domestic violence in Australia and why it just seems to keep happening. Can you shed some of your “Ziah – Bright Light” on the situation?”

Headmistress: “Tomas, your thoughts should look at the long-term causality issue from the perpetrators, victims, carers, and bystanders learning and reawakening point of view. Your thoughts should expand from the scope of domestic violence to include all your ways of how you are running the planet, that are now so far out of balance. We can apply these thoughts to work place and school bullying, military training and tours of duty that causes PTSD, Corporate Chairmen, CEOs and wealthy individuals who perpetrate the use of tax havens, accountants and lawyers who facilitate these tax haven transactions, food chemists who add excessive sugars and addictive substances to food preparations, political duality, bankers who facilitate money laundering, child trafficking, slave labour users, as well as race, sex, colour and religious abusers, environmental polluters and animal cruelty.”

Tomas: “Are you saying that the planet is due for a massive reset? You could also observe that Homo sapiens are a failed species and is heading for extinction through nuclear wars and environmental disasters and climate imbalances?”

Headmistress: “Yes Tomas. It is time for you to reconnect your heads into our heart and gut minds through meditation, mindfulness and dreaming. Reawaken to a greater caring and love for each other, the planet and the Galaxy in which you materialize in. Your planet is in a period of mutation to produce a new species Homo consciousness and cooperation. You cannot keep going along the paths of the old ways that just do not work anymore. Which team to do want to end up on, the old ways or the new ways? You can only make a difference by one person at a time. You are All just One People and it only takes, the One Person to make that difference. Would this thought motivate you get out of bed each day to make that One difference for yourself and the running of the planet in a different Way?”

Tomas: “Yes it would help me wake up with a new passion. But show me how just One Person can make an exponential difference to remove all those issues you have mentioned.”

Headmistress: “Tomas, I need you to study the Law of Karma, the Law of Causality and the Law of Grace. The resetting of your intentions from that of For Self to one of For Service. I would like you to go and attend a class with your friend and Professor of Fractal Time and Karma, the Black Buddha. Next, I would like you to study with Professor of Causality and Quantum Physics, Max Planck who was a close friend of Albert Einstein. Lastly, I want you to revisit the works of your friend from the Edgar Cayce’s Association of Research and Enlightenment, John Van Auken on the works of the Law of Grace. Tomas, please go off to talk with your professors. I will meet with you on another occasion.”

Tomas: “Thank you for your guidance, Headmistress Ziah. Goodbye for now.”

The Law of Karma.

Black Buddha: “Tomas, come on in. Headmistress Ziah has asked me to discuss with you the origins of the old Laws of Endless Lifetimes of the effects of Karma and the new Law of Fractal Time return to the Zero Point of Source Energy as we discussed in Chapter 7. Do you remember the symbol of the Endless Knot of Karma used in Buddhism? A never-ending loop of karma.”

Title: Tibetan Buddhist Endless Knot of Karma.

Tomas: “Yes, Black Buddha, it symbolises the saying in Galatians Chapter 6, “As you sow so shall you reap.” It means that whatever your actions are in this life, whether good or bad you will receive the same action in return during one of your future lifetimes. However, some people live a good life this incarnation but end up in horrific domestic violence situations or even death. How do you, account for this?”

Black Buddha: “What the western world has forgotten is their connection with Eternity. Your DNA has 180,000 years of records of horrific actions of your grandparents which you carry with you in the nucleus of every one of your cells. Plus, your Soul Energy record or Akashic Record has 13.7 billion years of Energy history. You have forgotten the concept of the connectivity of Karma. The bad things that sometimes happen to good people in this life have sometimes been inherited from your 180,000-year DNA record. The cause for the domestic violence event in this lifetime has to be considered more in line with your connection with your long-term soul history. 2,500 years ago, (500 BCE) I asked exactly this same question. With my enlightenment as the 28^th Buddha, I experienced a way out of this endless loop. I found I had to look more towards the light than towards the dark. Fractal Time mathematics enabled me to travel forwards into deep dark black holes full of pain.

However, the second part of the iteration of the calculation enabled me to go backwards up and out of the black hole again into the Light. When you are in the Light again you can set a new intention or direction up to the top of the hill or again back down into another deep dark black hole or valley. Using your compass, you would say the Westward direction is down the dark hole or valley, while the Eastward direction would lead you in the direction up the hill and to the Light. Some people in your western world are “Self-Serving or greedy” and have become lazy, complacent and are just sitting by the pool in their penthouses drinking Coconut and Mango Daiquiris. Sometimes they have chosen a “Domestic Violence” event or one of the other listed events to assist their reawakening of themselves to their Soul Karmic service above self-purpose. Your western world has become stuck in the material Fourth-dimension of Spacetime.”

Tomas: “So are you saying that our inner subconscious mind is gently pushing our “Ego conscious” logical left-brain mind back onto the path of Enlightenment? Could we classify these smashing into brick walls in life events as karmic lessons to remind up about redirecting our intentions towards the Light?”

Black Buddha: “Yes Tomas. It was only during the life as Siddhartha Gautama, the 28^th Black Buddha after over 100,000 years of trials out of 180,000 years as Homo sapiens did I discover the Law of Causality of why Bad Things, sometimes out of the blue happen to good people in this lifetime. See my list of lives so that you start to understand the patience we need to understand how these out of balance activities occur. You could say I am a very slow learner.”

	List of the named Buddhas from the Pāli Canon texts of Theravāda Buddhism
No	Pali Name	Sanskrit Name	Class (Varna)	Birthplace
1	Taṇhaṅkara 100,000 BCE	Tṛṣṇaṃkara	Kshatriya	Popphavadi
2	Medhaṅkara	Medhaṃkara		Yaghara
3	Saraṇaṅkara	Śaraṇaṃkara		Vipula
4	Dīpaṃkara	Dīpaṃkara	Brahmin	Rammawatinagara
5	Koṇḍañña	Kauṇḍinya	Kshatriya	Rammawatinagara
6	Maṅgala	Maṃgala	Brahmin	Uttaranagara
7	Sumana	Sumanas	Kshatriya	Mekhalanagara
8	Revata	Raivata	Brahmin	Sudhannawatinagara
9	Sobhita	Śobhita	Kshatriya	Sudhammanagara
10	Anomadassi	Anavamadarśin	Brahmin	Chandawatinagara
11	Paduma	Padma	Kshatriya	Champayanagara
12	Nārada	Nārada		Dhammawatinagara
13	Padumuttara	Padmottara	Kshatriya	Hansawatinagara
14	Sumedha	Sumedha	Kshatriya	Sudasananagara
15	Sujāta	Sujāta		Sumangalanagara
16	Piyadassi	Priyadarśin		Sudannanagara
17	Atthadassi	Arthadarśin	Kshatriya	Sonanagara
18	Dhammadassī	Dharmadarśin	Kshatriya	Surananagara
19	Siddhattha	Siddhārtha		Vibharanagara
20	Tissa	Tiṣya		Khemanagara
21	Phussa	Puṣya	Kshatriya	Kāśi
22	Vipassī	Vipaśyin	Kshatriya	Bandhuvatinagara
23	Sikhī	Śikhin	Kshatriya	Arunavattinagara
24	Vessabhū	Viśvabhū	Kshatriya	Anupamanagara
25	Kakusandha	Krakucchanda	Brahmin	Khemavatinagara
26	Koṇāgamana	Kanakamuni	Brahmin	Sobhavatinagara
27	Kassapa	Kāśyapa	Brahmin	Baranasinagara
28	Gotama 480 BCE	Gautama Buddha	Kshatriya	Lumbini
29	Metteyya 2000 CE	Maitreya Current	Brahmin	Ketumatī

Source: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_the_named_Buddhas

Tomas: “Wow, you have been working on these Enlightenment thoughts for 100,000 years.”

Black Buddha: “Each of us have similar planetary and universe sojourn history records. These are recorded in our DNA and Akashic records. These can be read during your dreams, meditation or by psychics, clairvoyants or kinesiologists. Let me explain a little about my role as the Maitreya, the 29^th Buddha. We are working towards the reawakening of the female energy in both females and males within the Middle and Far East where male energy is so dominant. You may find me cloaked in a Muslim male body and the Christ as my Muslim daughter. She is the “One” best able to reconnect with the females in this region. All around the planet we need massive shifts to female energy as found in Mother Earth.”

Tomas: “So do you enter into the location looking like the people you are trying to assist?”

Black Buddha: “Yes Tomas in this instance. As far as I can see, both the western and eastern worlds have not yet started to apply the lessons of Fractal Time back through the Zero Point Energy or Journey of Ascension back to the Light of Source Energy. In my 28^th experience as Gautama Buddha, I learnt as a Fractal mathematician, this experience and Ascension Journey of Enlightenment. I spent the next 45 years trying to explain this path of Enlightenment to my followers so that they could also experience the same and end their Endless Knot of karma. Tomas, think about the benefits of Fractal Time iterations enabling you to start a fresh after you have hit a brick wall in the path of your life.”

Tomas: “Can you explain a little more about how we end up in this endless Loop.”

Earth Bound Souls who stay in the Astral Plain in the Afterlife.

Black Buddha: “We find at present there are around 1.5 billion souls who are Earth Bound because of their connection and belief in Karma (Endless lives), Atheism (non-belief in Gods), Agnosticism (Humanistic inability to justify a belief in or not believe in the existence of a God), Nihilism (Life is meaningless), Materialism (Belief that the accumulation of matter

in the form of money or wealth is all important), Unforgiveness (accumulation of resentment), Warism (Belief that war is justifiable), Victims and Perpetrators of War (Those killed during war or have killed others during war), Victims and Perpetrators of Violence (Perpetrators or victims of violence) and the concept of Free Will (Were as Son’s of God we have been given total free will to run our experience on Earth or even with the Universe.” 

Tomas: “That covers a lot of possibilities. How do they get born again?”

Black Buddha: “Just like what you tried to do after your death as a convict in Australia. You chose not to come back to school, clean yourself up and set new intentions before your next life. We call this jumping the que to get back into a new body from the Astral Plane. We find this happens a lot after war events.”

Tomas: “This must stress out the angels who come to help people after unpleasant deaths or those holding beliefs as noted above. This will take a little time for me to comprehend these concepts.”

Black Buddha: “You now need to go and see what Max Planck, a close friend of Albert Einstein, what he has to say about the Law of Causality and the Light Cone, from a western science point of view. Max Planck is in three rooms down the corridor to the left next to Albert Einstein’s room. You may hear them paying the violin together, but just knock and go on in, they love to have an audience.” 

Tomas: “Thanks Black Buddha. I can see you are a little upset about our lack of understanding of the consequences of the karmic effect on our war like history. I can see you are keen for us to make progress in the way we run the planet. It sure sounds like we are out of balance with the rest of the intergalactic thinking and behaviour. We seem to be directing the use of our energy in very destructive ways domestically and on the planet.”

Max Planck (23 April 1858 to 4 October 1947.)

Albert Einstein (14 March 1879 to 18 April 1955)

Setting of your Intentions starts the Law of Causality to activate in your life.

Tomas: Finding the door with Max Planck’s name, I knock, wait a moment and then enter. Upon entering I find the room setup just like in the famous picture below of Albert Einstein and Max Planck taken on 12 November, 1931 in the library of Max von Laue in Berlin before dinner was served. Max Planck enters from a side door to the library.

Title: Nernst, Einstein, Planck, Millikan and Laue, at a dinner held by Max von Laue in Berlin on 12 November, 1931.

Tomas: “A pleasure to meet you, Mr Planck. My name is Tomas.”

Max Planck: “A pleasure to meet you at last Tomas. I have been hearing a lot about your ‘Science Friction’ book. Do you understand that the purpose of writing Science Friction is to ruffle the feathers of current thinking? Do you like the way we have painstakingly recreated Max von Laue’s library as our reception room for guests here on Arcturus?”

Tomas: “Yes, I am comfortable to meet you in my mind’s image of yourself. Thank you for classifying my work under the genre of Science Friction. It is not my intention to ruffle the feathers of any western scientist. I would classify Albert Einstein and your Quantum Mechanics Noble Prize-winning work as Science Friction. As you can see my chapters are written from my dream state. It is substantially referenced to Wikipedia which would not cut the mustard in the scientific world. It is not designed for scientists but to assist Highly Sensitive People reconnect with the 95% “Plasma” of the universe through the Fifth-dimension. Scientists are stuck in the Newtonian assumptions of the Fourth-dimension of Spacetime in matter. Newton was stuck on the solid, liquid and gaseous measures of matter with empty spaces and vacuum in the other 95% of the universe. You and Einstein through Quantum Mechanics provided the formulas for the Plasma to fill the Universe. I want my clients to experience the dynamics of the expansion and contraction of the 95% of the universe as it collides in a sea of plasma creating ions and free electrons in a crystalline form with a rich history over life times. I am particularly interested in your mathematics of how by setting my intention in life, your Law of Causality activates the resultant effect and events to happen in my life over time? This is how we are creating a Grand Torus Energy Experiment? To me Shakespeare plays were always about the logical Law of Causality over time rather than the Newtonian illogical events over one lifetime. I can best describe the

Law of Causality by your concept of the Light Cone. This is the Concept of Hollows rather than the Platonic concept of Solids.”

Title: Concept of the Law of Causality and the diagram of the Light Cone.

Max Planck: “Tomas, do not get so touchy. The Universe will work out whose feathers your “Dream work” needs to ruffle and reawaken. Just get it written, thank you very much.

Let me give you a quotation from Das Wesen der Materie [The Nature of Matter], in a speech I gave in Florence, Italy, 1944.

• As a man who has devoted his whole life to the most clearheaded science, to the study of matter, I can tell you as a result of my research about the atoms this much: There is no matter as such! All matter originates and exists only by virtue of a force which brings the particles of an atom to vibration and holds this most minute solar system of the atom together. We must assume behind this force (Law of Causality) the existence of a conscious and intelligent Mind. This Mind is the matrix of all matter. ‘Geist’, here translated as ‘mind’ which can also be translated as ‘spirit.’

Source: https://en.wikiquote.org/wiki/Max_Planck and Book: Braden, Gregg. (2008) The Spontaneous Healing of Belief. Shattering the Paradigm of False Limits. Page 212. Hay House. https://greggbraden.com/

I am going to demonstrate how by setting your intentions to meet with me, started the Law of Causality and the Light Cone to activate in your life.”

Tomas: “Ok Max, I am all ears, or do I have an open my mind to experience your Law of Causality.”

Max Planck: “Ok Tomas, what is the most popular image in your world that both Albert Einstein and I are known by?”

Tomas: “Why of course, Max it is the picture above where both of you were creating “Science Friction.” It is the point in both your careers where you were waiting for the rest of western scientists to catch up with you and experience the complexity and joy of the Fifth-dimension. You understood the concepts from the beginning of the universe right through to the end of the universe as one big event. Most scientists are still trying to experience the Fifth-dimension using Fourth-dimension tools of measurement which simply do not work.”

Max Planck: “Tomas, Fourth and Fifth-dimension minds think in pictures. So, your mind sets an intension to meet me by using a famous picture of me in 1931 when I was 73 years old. Most scientists when they come to meet me expect to see me, as has been captured in this famous 1931 picture. This is why we have set up this reception room to meet their expectations. Once scientists have reconnected with me and their image of me through their intentions, then I can convert back to my more youthful 20-year-old self I use between my life as Max Planck and my next sojourn around the galaxy. Hang on a minute while I convert back to my 25-year-old body suit now that you have made contact.”

Title Max Planck as pictured in 1878 as a twenty-year-old.

Tomas: “Yes, I will change my picture of you now in my mind to your 20-year-old self. I also use my 20-year-old self to travel around in my dream state and call myself Tomas.”

Max Planck: “Tomas. Sometimes it is very hard to imagine that our inner souls or subconscious minds set intentions of self-aggrandisement that often lead to a causal effect down a big dark black hole away from the light and end up with domestic violence events. The trick is to use Fractal Time to climb your way back out of the black hole up to the light again. Set new intentions for service and fill the world with enlightenment. This will enable the Law of Grace to activate and provide you a freedom to avoid the brick walls of karma and domestic violence experiences.”

Tomas: “Yes Max. “As you sow, so shall you reap” from a Fifth-dimension soul scale over eons of time does provide the answers for why bad things sometimes happening to good people. It is so hard to measure events over a one lifetime from such a short-term distorted vision.”

Max Planck: “Tomas, congratulations you are getting the concept of karma and causality over eons of time and incarnations. When you wake from this dream please research the following book.

Book: Van Auken, John. (2010) From Karma to Grace: The Power of the Fruits of the Spirit. ARE Press. https://edgarcayce.org/

Could you also prepare some useful tools of measurement as a guide for setting new intentions for those experiencing events of domestic violence and other karmic imbalances in your planet at the present moment. You may find the Duluth Model as a good starting point.”

Tomas: “Your thoughts have given me a vital experience in understanding an Integrative approach to imbalanced ways of selfishness which can lead us into the black holes of domestic violence.”

Max Planck: “Tomas. Before you go there is time for you to listen to Johann Sebastian Bach’s meditative piece that both Albert Einstein and I used to go beyond the confines of the Fourth-dimension to experience the Law of Causality and purposefulness of the Universe. It is the orchestra piece of Toccata and Fugue in D Minor – Chorales Preludes. Tomas, take time to listen now.”

YouTube Title: BBC Proms 2010 – Bach Day 1 – Toccata and fugue in d minor bwv 565

Source: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i0nRPDfpbkY

Tomas: “Max. I am going to have to listen to Bach’s Fugue again and again to feel this same connection you were able to make by stepping out of the Fourth-dimension into the understandings available for us to experience the greater connected universe of the Fifth-

dimension. Thank you for sharing this with me. I will add this to the list of music I find uplifting during challenging times. Thank you and goodbye for the time Being.”

Max Planck: “It has been an honour to meet you at last, you Science Friction writer.”

Tomas: “Stay well you young friend.” I awoke in my bed with a greater clarity of the understand of the historical Soul Causality resulting in bad domestic violence events for good people. I was ready to do more research.

Let’s look at the Law of Grace as explained by John Van Auken.

Often, it is easy to blame an effect on a tradition. It is the way we have always reacted. So, often we are just followed learned responses that have been observed or inherited. Let us look at our species as inheriting 180,000 years of history recorded in the DNA of the nucleus in each cell of our bodies. We are really connected in some small way to that past history of grievances. We then carry these energetic imbalanced records with us as a history or Karma for the many reasons why we are so far out of balance. There is a way out of these records or work arounds for the brick walls we may have smashed into on the path of life. It is like building new reconnective synaptic pathways around the explosions between the neuron connectors within the brain. Clear the fog and headaches.

John Van Auken talks about going from Karma to Grace. John has worked for many years, with the Edgar Cayce (Sleeping Prophet) organisation called the Association for Research and Enlightenment (A.R.E.) based in Virginia Beach, USA. Let me show you a quotation from the Edgar Cayce readings

“As [one] sets itself to accomplish that which is of a creative influence … no longer is the entity under the law of cause and effect or karma, but rather in grace.”– Edgar Cayce reading 2800-1

In this uplifting commentary, author John Van Auken reveals the simple yet profound path that takes one from living in the grind of karma to the light and peace of grace. Using the foundation of spiritual living found in the psychic readings of Edgar Cayce and the ‘Fruits of the Spirit,’ Van Auken weaves a tapestry of love and light, of freedom from karmic reactions, of hope and happiness.

Learn how you can improve your relationships, embrace a happier and healthier life, and realize your soul’s full potential as you:

• Expand your horizons
• Awaken latent talents
• Attract positive people and circumstance
• Subdue negative and destructive patterns

The key is to live creatively rather than destructively and to apply the celebrated ‘Fruits of the Spirit’ in our relationships with others and in dealing with the challenges of life that arise. Van Auken shows you how as he divulges seemingly simple secrets that produce profound results when applied in our lives and relationships. Take time out to review his

YouTube Title: John Van Auken talks about going From Karma to Grace

Source: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k3SQtIib-7I&t=1s

Tools, thinking and measures to make a difference.

The Now, Where and How approach to Life and Events.

Let us see if we are able to find a new direction for our lives and events by using the Now, Where and How model approach. Start with a Where, to set a new intention for yourself physically, emotionally and mentally. Next measure the Now. Then work out the New How and what to do differently. It uses a similar approach to ACT, Acceptance Commitment Therapy.

Title: Now Where How Approach to Life and Events.

Spend time setting new intentions, Hope and directions.

Step one is to pick a new theme song for this experience from a Highly Sensitive Heart-based Person, an HSP. Usually, an HSP has a long thin rectangle body shape. Other body shapes are round bodies like Earth Mothers and huggers. The third shape is that of a soldier square body shape. Refer to Chapter 4. Use Heart based music with heart-based thoughts.

Here are some possible inspiring songs confirming the heart beauty that resides within you.

YouTube Title: Cyndi Lauper – True Colors. (Official HD Video)

Source: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LPn0KFlbqX8

YouTube Title: Lindsey Stirling – Shatter Me ft. Lzzy Hale (Official Music Video)

Source: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=49tpIMDy9BE

YouTube Title: Nattali Rize – One People [Official Video 2017]
Source: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eNQTZ_lxLXs

YouTube Title: Taylor Swift – Shake it off.

Source: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nfWlot6h_JM

YouTube Title: Yantara Jiro – Crystal Bowl Mediation

Source: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hWhGgTcNoPg&list=RDTmo-sYelydE&index=3

YouTube Title: Diva Dance from The Fifth Element. Full version.

Stay calm with the Fifth Element Diva Dance while all around you appears to be falling apart.

Source: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a7Dh5QoXv2c&list=RDa7Dh5QoXv2c&start_radio=1

YouTube Title: Xaver Varnus plays Bach’s Tocca & Fugue in the Berliner Dom.

Source: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FHNLdHe8uxY

What other pieces of Music would you choose. Make Your Own List.

Let us set new heart and soul-based Intentions.

You are the only person that you can change. “If it is to Be, then it is up to Me”. So, let us stop wishing the other person is going to change or make the shift. We are the ones who need to own our situations and make the first step on a new path and direction. So, what does your non-violence Equality situation look like for you.

Complete a Duluth Equality Wheel and record your vision for Equality.

Make a list of your new Where to from the here and now.

My new Equality Wheel looks like these evolving thoughts and direction.

1.      Non-threating Behaviour. Have you included a zero-tolerance policy?

2.      Respect.

3.      Trust and Support.

4.      Honesty and Accountability

5.      Responsible Parenting

6.      Shared Responsibility

7.      Economic Partnership

8.    Negotiation and Fairness.

9.      My Passion to get me out of bed and face the day.

Other Notes:

Lets look at the way we are Now thinking.

Lets look at Encompassing Thinking instead of Duality thinking. How can we think differently from our current duality thoughts.

A compass looks like this. We seem to give a lot of importance to just the North and South points.

Title: A North and south pointing Compass. Horizonal Duality Thinking.

A compass traditionally is used for direction across the surfase of the earth. Like so…

Title: Longitude. North Pole and South Pole. Duality Thinking.

So often in the western world we use Duality thinking of North and South, Right and Wrong. King and servant. Boss and slave. Perpetrator and victim. Male and female. This also is termed Splitting in Psychology.

Let us start considering Encompassing thinking or sometimes termed Critical Thinking. where each 360 degrees in the compass are valid ways to view an event. All 360 degrees are just thoughts where no one thought is truly Right and none are truly wrong. They are all just another way to view an event. This takes away the need for blame, right and wrong.

Consider this as more like a Light Cone.

Title: Encompassing thinking encourages is to see the compass points from a different perspective. Past and Future. Travelling away from the Light. Travelling towards the Light.

Consider, the North direction looks at the past while the South direction looks to the future rather than just a direction in a physical and material world, on a flat earth.

Now imagine West is down into the Earth, dark, lack of energy, weakness and the end of your old way of life. This is where you get grounded, measure you situation and start planting, nourishing and growing your new direction.

Now imagine the East direction as pointing up towards the Sun, light, energy, strenght and new beginnings. Once your new direction surfaces above the Ground Zero level, feel the warmth of the Sun light. Grow wings and fly. Soar above your past and future. ‘Shake it Off.’

In yoga with the start of each new day we ‘Salute the Sun’. We fill our solar plexus, belly button area with new energy and Qi to get through just this day. Take a day at a time. Put off some of the pressures of today and transfer a few of the items on ‘Your important to do list’ on to the list for tomorrow or even to next month. Concentration on the planning that needs to be done today.

Quotation: Why do birds sing in the morning? It’s the triumphant shout: ‘We got through another night!’. Enid Bagnold. Source https://www.greetingcardpoet.com/bird-quotes-eagles-owls-crows-turkeys/

Measure the “Now” with acceptance of the present events and situation.

To move forward it is always important to realise what really is the situation.

Title: The Duluth Power and Control Charts are a good start to measure and realise the signs of reality.

File out this list to confirm in your mind what it is that you are experiencing now.

1.      Using Intimidation.

2.      Using Emotional Abuse.

3.      Using Isolation.

4.      Minimizing, Denying and Blaming.

5.      Using Children.

6.      Using Gender Privileges.

7.      Using Economic Abuse.

8.      Using Coercion and threats.

Other Notes: 

Let us now look at the How to, build and Action plan and commitment for change.

Let us start with Research and people to talk with.

Australian Websites.

1. 1800 Respect. 1800 737 732. https://www.1800respect.org.au/
2. DVConnect Womensline 1800 811 811
3. DVConnect Mensline 1800 600 636
4. https://www.qld.gov.au/community/getting-support-health-social-issue/support-victims-abuse/domestic-family-violence
5. White Ribbon. Specifically, for Women. https://www.whiteribbon.org.au/.
6. No to Violence 1300 766 491 https://ntv.org.au/get-help/
7. Specifically, for Men 1800 65 64 63. https://www.facs.nsw.gov.au/domestic-violence/my-situation/im-a-man
8. Finding contact numbers https://www.whiteribbon.org.au/find-help/domestic-violence-hotlines/
9. Lifeline 13 11 14 https://www.lifeline.org.au/
10. In an Emergency Police and Ambulance Phone 000.
11. In Queensland also ring 13Health 13 43 25 84. https://www.qld.gov.au/health/conditions/online
12. Mentoring Men. https://mentoringmen.org.au/ Brisbane QLD
13. Perfect Wellness https://perfectwellness.com.au/ Paddington QLD

USA website.

Embrace. Supportive Community Resources. https://www.embracewi.org/supportive-community. Item 4 has a list of things to take with you.

Talk with your Doctor.

See if you can be put an ‘Access to Better Health Plan’ in place with your Doctor to include subsidized 5 visits to an allied health Practitioner including a Psychiatrists, Psychology or a Social Worker.

Access to professionals.

Refer to our links pages on our website

https://alivetherapies.com.au/links/

In Summary complete a Now Where and How analysis and take steps to fly again.

Have a look at the Vision set out by the Thrive Movement: their website and free download video.

Source: http://www.thrivemovement.com/ and https://www.freetothrive.com/movie/

With love and divine light. Robert Wilson.

In the words of Headmistress Ziah. Our thoughts should expand from the scope of domestic violence to include all our ways of how we are running the planet, that are now so far out of balance. We can apply these thoughts to work place and school bullying, military training and tours of duty that causes PTSD, Corporate Chairmen, CEOs and wealthy individuals who perpetrate the use of tax havens, accountants and lawyers who facilitate these tax haven transactions, food chemists who add excessive sugars and addictive substances to food preparations, bankers who facilitate money laundering, child traffickers, slave labour users, as well as race, sex, colour and religious abusers, environmental polluters and animal cruelty. We are not alone.